A word of warning to all

All people heed this warning (because it may keep you out of trouble someday). NEVER call a woman, let alone a pregnant woman FAT! A little bit ago I was asked by someone (who shall remain nameless to protect the Innocent) how I was doing/feeling. I was excited to show off the little 'Baby-Bump' that I am starting to develop so I lifted the bottom of my shirt to show this person. The individual then turned to Matthew and said "Gee, that's the fattest I have ever seen her." I stood there so shocked, hurt and very self contuse that I couldn't even talk! Now, despite the fact that the statement may very well be true, it is NEVER a good idea to say the "F" word to a woman that is growing a baby insider her! I mean I already have to wake up in the morning and say to myself "look at how big the BABY is getting" just to remind myself that it is not ME who is getting larger... it is the baby. I am still eating healthy, going to the gym and trying to stay fit. The LAST thing that I wanted to hear was that I am the fattest I have ever been! (can you tell I am still hurt by this comment?) I've been working on letting it go, because I know it wasn't said to be mean, but man, I'm having a hard time doing that! So just a word of warning to all the people who get to watch my tummy grow... I know that it's getting larger, but it's supposed to, THERES A BABY IN THERE, IT"S NOT FAT! I am not sitting on my behind eating bonbons and doughnuts (though those do sound good), I am growing a new life! :) Gee, I feel better. Thanks for letting me vent!